I’ve debated on posting this for quite a while however, seeing that poor girls are still getting dragged into his scams and his traps.
I think it’s finally time, I am his ex fiancée. While yes he is a scammer he is also an
abuser. Now I can’t say he’s ever been physically abusive towards me however, mentally very much so. This is something that has weighed on me quite heavily for a long time. While in a relationship with him I developed severe anxiety to the point where I couldn’t go a day without a having a panic attack. I went from a very confident and outgoing young woman to someone who was terrified to leave the house. I was depressed, I slept for days and refused to leave my bed. People that love me watched me turn into a shell of myself, I pushed everyone away including my own mum. Thankfully I was surrounded by an amazing support system which sadly can’t be said the everyone, my mental health got 10 times better after I left him. While yes I still suffer from social anxiety, I no longer have to be medicated. It took a lot of work, I went through quite a lot of therapy. So I suppose the point of this post is, things are a lot more sinister than just scams. This is my story and I will forever scream my truth! For any girl out there remember you’re not alone, do not be afraid to reach out to me. When I left I was confused, scared and broken. I’m so grateful for everyone who has provided me with the truth.
the message he sent me after I broke up with him.
